I hate dealing with confrontations and arguments and disagreements, regardless of the scale. I'd much rather prefer to...ignore and exclude the person from my life. Just shrink away from it altogether. It seems like a much better option in my opinion la. Cause after all the hostility and all, it would be near impossible to forget what you've done and how bothered I am about it. No? Esp when I do not consider you as a close friend, it would be far more meaningless to waste my effort trying to justify my stand and trying to empathise with you (not that I'm really interested in putting myself in your shoes anyway). I'm superb at ignoring and secluding myself away from people I do not wish to face....but what happens when the very people whom you've fallen out with and you've shunned away from, tries so hard to fit back into your life?
What happens then?
Do you....
1) Reciprocate the effort they've put into salvaging what's left and also make an effort to save the friendship?
2) Continue ignoring the person's desperate attempts?
But, confirm will have pros and cons one what!!
for 1), you can put in the effort only if it comes from your heart that you wanna salvage this friendship. Right? What if I've already decided to throw it all out the window because I don't think you're worth it anymore? What if I've long given up hope of you being a
friend to me? Or...What if I'm simply feeling super irritated by your mere presence in my life and I want you to fucking get out of it???
For 2), you can ignore lah. But provided you have an infinite amount of patience and determination to not get your feathers ruffled up by their desperate attempts. Cause confirm you'll blow your top when your limit's reached right? There's only so much harassment and intrusion and irritation one can take before her sanity cracks.
So how now brown cow?? I have no idea man.
Help anyone?