Monday, June 20, 2011

Insecure

A brief meet up with B recently has been eliciting a lot of self-conscious thoughts in my mind.

I have absolutely no idea, why someone would point out another person's insecurity out blatently and then try to mask it as some form of concern or...a passing statement. Different people have different insecurities, and just because you don't share the same insecurity doesn't mean the other person's insecurity is any less significant.

Whoa thats a lot of insecurities in a single paragraph. Haha.

Maybe you're feeling more secure now cause you have a someone who's completely smitten with you, reassuring you every single day that you're beautiful just the way you are, telling you how your eyes sparkle like Edward Cullen's skin under the sun, but that doesn't warrant you the right to make someone feel less pretty...right?

Perhaps it's just a careless slip of the tongue, an unintentional comment, or maybe just my sensitivity acting up. But I think one should always tread cautiously whenever commenting on appearance cause sometimes, the most innocent remark may be turn out to be the most hurtful words which bothers someone for days and days and dayssss. Everyone wants to take pride in their own appearance, but the constant berating and standardizing of the notion of beauty seems the biggest impediment for self-worth and confidence to be fulfilled within everyone.

......and I officially sound like some girl who needs a whole lotta self-love. Ok this is just an exception of openly displaying my insecurities. Not gonna happen again.

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